Feels that she has trust issues. So how does she deal with it? Or how can she deal with it?

Was randomly talking to the sister yesterday. She was like mapping out my life plan for me. Wonder if it'll work. The only way to know is to talk about it with him. Will I sound like I'm presurrising him if I were to do that? I wonder. But I don't even know how to start the topic. Dangs~