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Babymoon Getaway!

Day 1 of KL Babymoon trip! 

It's been so many years since hubby and I stepped foot in KL. First time going together, ever since marriage. First time going to KL via plane. Totally felt like tourists as we took the bus and monorail from the airport. Alighted from the monorail and we had to lug our luggages around to find our way to the hotel. Heh..yes, in the haze mind you.

Misunderstandings is a result of miscommunication and expectation. As a female, I have certain expectations of what a man should do and what he should not. But I guess, we should all work on what our strengths are in and that is how you complement each other in a relationship. That's what makes your relationship different from others, as no two relationship are ever the same. 

Accomodation is at The Royale Bintang Kuala Lumpur. Lobby looked promising, but sad to say that hotel was a lil bit disappointing. Maybe it just so happened that it's a corner room, so the room looked kinda tiny. But I guess if we're going to be out most of the time, didnt quite matter does it? Toilet was pretty simple too, no fancy bathtub whatsoever. I guess because the hotel we stayed in at Batam was awesome! 

Will load up the pics once hubby has processed them. 

Explored the shopping  malls nearby, since Bukit Bintang is known for that. Managed to squeeze in a movie, Man Of Steel. Caught it at Golden Screen Cinemas at Pavilion. THERE WERE SO MANY AWESOME EATERIES AT PAVILION!!! PepperLunch, Carl's Junior...awesome possum..

We're going to try checking out the Central Market and Jln Masjid India tmr. Hopefully the haze will go away by then. Heard that there was a hailstorm in SG!!

14W

Late update on Lil Khimmy! :(

Went to visit the gynae and Lil Khimmy has grown to 6.8cm! Not too big, not too small. A comforting piece of news considering that I lost weight. Lil Khimmy, Mummy will eat more so that you can grow into a healthy baby! 

Hubby was definitely excited and prepared this time round. Whipped out his iPhone as soon as gynae was going to do the scan, all ready to record the whole scanning process and Lil Khimmy's heartbeat. We are so happy that we got to see you again!! :D 

For a first time Mum, i have to say that I'm very sensitive to Lil Khimmy's movements. At 13W, I was already able to feel the lil one moving inside. Lil Khimmy is sure one active baby!

Hubby and I have thought a name for Lil Khimmy. If it's a boy, it'll be Zuhaily Zuhnun. If it's a girl, it'll be Nur Laiqah Nayli, just like hubby's dream camera, Leica. :P 

Anyhow, we just came back from a weekend getaway at Batam. Haze situation is rather ok over there. Seemed like the haze situation got better in SG too while we were away. I want to believe that it's the barakah from the Solat Hajat that was done during the Friday prayers. Alhamdulillah. 

The down side is that we're heading to KL tomorrow, and apparently, the wind had blown the haze over to that side of Malaysia. Boo! Thank goodness, I have a one week supply of N95 protect myself and Lil Khimmy. 

You will be surprised at the panic situation that the haze has caused in SG. People are queueing up just to get their hands on N95 supply. The saddening part however is that people tend to overbuy, depriving others who need it as well, or even need it more. In addition, the least they could do to do justice to the masks is to know how to don it properly. Geez~

See you soon, Lil Khimmy! :D

I'm way excited today! Can't seem to focus much at work because we'll be seeing Lil Khimmy in the afternoon later. Hopefully~~

Hubby and I are looking forward to seeing Lil Khimmy later. The last time we say Lil Khimmy was when Lil Khimmy was 2cm long. Hopefully, Lil Khimmy is as eager as us to come and meet us later.

Last night hubby put his ear against my tummy and he was very sure he heard something and he attempted to talk to Lil Khimmy. That scenario, that feeling, was very surreal. I kept smiling to myself. Here I am carrying a child for my hubby, whom I'm very sure will be a wonderful dad to this child of ours. *sob*

Will update once we have seen our gynae!! :D

Monday Blues

Good Morning World~~!

I'm having the most terrible Monday blues ever! Reached home at 1am last night and only went to sleep close to 2am. *yawns*

It was such a bad, terrible jam at the causeway last night. Was stuck in traffic for more than 2 hours before we finally get past SG Immigrations. BIL tried ways and means to find alternative route for a less jammed traffic, but to no avail. Was driving the whole day yesterday. I could feel Lil Khimmy moving around later at night, the vibrations in my tummy, and I'm very sure that it wasn't me, neither is it muscle spasms.

More people are in the loop about Lil Khimmy. No valid reason to hide it anyway, as it's just a matter of time. And hubby and I are happy to share our joy with everybody.

It was a surreal feeling when hubby was leaving for reservist this morning. He kissed me goodbye before i head back to sleep, and reminded him that he forgot to kiss Lil Khimmy too. I'm excited for this parenthood journey. In shaa Allah it'll be a good and enriching one.

The Lil One

As some of you might have known, hubby and I are entering a new phase in life as a married couple. We are excited much. There are so many things that we are looking forward to, and so many things to do. Hopefully, with the new bundle of joy that is on the way, it will bring more joy to the family and the people around us.

It's a strange feeling though, knowing that there is something / somebody / a living thing in you, who is growing day by day. It is a very surreal feeling. A feeling that I will never know how to desrcibe. And it's nice to have a really supportive husband to be with you every step of the way and being by your side all these while.

I'm thankful that it has been a pleasant 13 weeks of my life. Lil Khimmy has been a pleasant one. No gripes, no fussines. Happy go lucky, and anything goes. :) Please stay that way Lil Khimmy. Make it pleasant for both you and me. I'll try to provide you with whatever nutrients that you need. You know Mummy and Daddy love you.

There are so many things coming up in our lives.
The bundle of joy.
Hubby going for studies next year.
I might be going for studies this year.
Reviving the business that once was thriving.

And yet, I realise that things happen for a reason. And He knows best.

Insecurity, I'm to be blamed for

Oh the insecurity that I'm feeling.

It's true they said, some things are better left unknown.

Then again, wouldn't that mean that things are being done behind your back?

How will you feel if your husband is in contact with his ex, who is also married, and yet they talk abt personal things really personal things. And how to a certain extent a part of the past is still there and is very much strongly embedded in the conversation / relationship?

And you din even noe.

Should I be feeling upset about it?
The truth is, I very much am.

And I cant stop crying now. Coz it hurts so much.

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